The ego is a construct of our self-survival mechanism. It needs to feel secure and justifies that need by seeking to control the actions of its environment and others. In reality it can influence them but not ultimately control them.
Egotistic people need flexible people to exercise what they feel they must have in order to survive; to control, dominate and manipulate the actions of others. Flexible people need egotistic people to provide direction and focus in moving forward. Both need each other to balance the desires of self with the desires of SELF.
If someone flexible is overly controlled and emotionally abused by someone egotistical, they can choose to understand the insecurities of the egotistical person and love them as they are. This doesn’t mean that they become a punching bag for that person. It means that they recognize the strength that they have to offer and temper that strength with their flexibility.
If they genuinely love the abuser and they have made inroads to help them to grow in their understanding, then there exists a possibility of positive expansion. If they are attached to the abuser because they believe their behavior towards them is love, then they are fooling themselves.
Abusive behavior is NOT love. Love is kind, gentle and understanding. Abuse is control, domination and manipulation toward a self-serving end. Abused children identify with the abusive parent because they want attention and they come to learn mistakenly that attention, no matter in what form, is love.
Love makes you feel good about whom you are and abuse doesn’t. A controlled person lives in a shadow of insecurity because it is safe and comfortable for them. It is the only place where they can justify the attention from an abuser. Stretching oneself to the point of reality will reveal that no one deserves any form of abuse.
If that is all an egotistical person can demonstrate is abuse, then remove yourself from them as soon as possible. Their growth is NOT dependent on your participation as being abused by them.
Respect whom and what you are and never allow anyone to abuse you, misuse you or take advantage of you. Being flexible doesn’t mean that you are a punching bag for those who only care about themselves. It means that you understand that they don’t understand and that you need to remove yourself from their negative and self-serving influence. You cannot truly love anyone else unless you love yourself first. ~Dean A. Banks, D.D.
Elizabeth and I would like to invite you all to our site ‘Service In Prayer’. For many months we have been led to offer a way for our online friends to have a forum to share our prayer needs with each other.
The purpose of this website is to connect with one another and share our needs for healing in whatever areas we feel we need. Please visit the website or go to the Facebook forum to post any public prayers on the Wall or PM us for private prayers.
We will pray for you or help you to find Prayer Partners to assist you in healing and realization of your Divine purpose and the unfolding of it in Divine order.
Thank you all for your support, kindness and for blessing us with your ongoing friendship. Peace and blessings to all of you and your families! ~Dean A. Banks, D.D.
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I am really getting disgusted with racist morons always saying that I am playing the race card. Let’s examine the issue of equipping cops with video cameras. If George Zimmerman had a body cam would Trayvon Martin have had justice? Would Michael Brown? It certainly DIDN’T work with Eric Garner! The video CLEARLY shows that an illegal choke hold KILLED Eric Garner; a father of six! He screamed he could not breathe and the officer still applied the ILLEGAL choke hold until he was DEAD. Yet, the Grand Jury did NOT return an indictment against the police officer for MURDER!!!
To all of those who say I am repeatedly playing the race card I have this to say: In each and every case above the perpetrators have played the race card in profiling someone BECAUSE of their RACE! If I drop a hammer over my foot the law of gravity will operate to make it hit my foot unless I move my foot out of the way! Did Martin, Brown and Garner have that chance to get out of the way? If they were white they would have had that chance because in each case they people who killed them were NOT black.
Yet, the agenda manifestation spinners keep talking about ‘black on black’ crime on Fixed News. Bill O’’Lie’lly keeps spewing his complete and utter bullshit along with Sean ‘Crap’ity; and their predominantly white audience believes their preaching of fear based on bullshit and racial discrimination.
Will body cams work? Perhaps; but until the Criminal Justice System becomes the ‘Victim’ Justice System cops and vigilantes who are NOT black will get away with murder. Most cops are decent citizens trying to protect us all. Just like most doctors want to ensure our health. However, in both groups are those who are only out for glory or financial perpetrated by their egos.
We the people need to stop this senseless violence against our youth and young adults. Each and every time that these incidents have occurred Reverend Al Sharpton shows up and morons post placards with flames behind him saying, “I’m here to help.” What is this message? It is a message of violence from a man who has lived his life seeking justice WITHOUT violence. Each time the families have called him in. He has not gravitated to these people like an ambulance chaser. He is using his influence to increase the public’s awareness and promote change.
Yet egomaniacal morons spin his message to fuel their fears. If we all don’t stop this profiling and allow bad cops to take the law into their own hands it’s as if we have collectively pulled the trigger or applied the choke hold.
Do you want to breathe? Then stop those who deny that right to ANYONE from getting away with murder! Get involved or you ARE a part of the problem. That’s the only way for us all to ‘breathe’ easier! ~Dean A. Banks, D.D.
FRACTACALLY SPEAKING
Fractacally speaking, the building blocks of nature grow and expand in natural order. What is natural order? It is the physical universe considered as an orderly system subject to natural (not human or supernatural) laws (dictionary.com). Natural order is an extension and projection of Divine order.
What is Divine order? According to truthkeepers.com “Divine order is simply the way God orders or arranges things. It is God's ordained arrangement according to His Divine logic and comprehension. It His methodical or prescribed arrangement of all things so that they function properly according to His Divine will. It is His determination of how things ought to be, which is the only way anything can work correctly. His Divine Order never changes because it is perfect and based on His perfection and unchangeableness.”
Out of the impressed singularity of the Divine comes the expression of the perceived dualistic reality (PDR) which operates under the laws of natural order. Planets move about their stars in gravity wells because it is natural for them to do so. People move about this earth because it is natural for them to do so.
Nature expresses itself fractal manner. A fractal is “a geometrical or physical structure having an irregular or fragmented shape at all scales of measurement between a greatest and smallest scale such that certain mathematical or physical properties of the structure, as the perimeter of a curve or the flow rate in a porous medium, behave as if the dimensions of the structure (fractal dimensions) are greater than the spatial dimensions” [dictionary.com]. Nature grows and expands in fractal patterns like the limbs of a tree. But why does it do this? Could it be the spirit of Divine order?
Our spirits create our lives because it is divinity in action. Our free will comes from the emotional belief systems we maintain to ensure our self-survival. These same belief systems that protect us can also hinder our progress by embracing mediocrity instead of fulfillment. Move everyday from surviving to thriving into the realm of actualizing the purpose that God planted in your heart. Jump out of your accepted ‘gravity well’ and traverse the heavens at the speed of light. It is your choice. ~Dean A. Banks, D.D.
Currently Bobby Hinkle, Elizabeth
May Sutor and Dean A. Banks, D.D. have uploaded podcasts. Robert Yarbrough will be added soon. Just click on the podcasters placards below and click on the Podcast title. Currently there are five podcasts on Bobby Hinkle's page, one on Elizabeth Sutor's page and nine on Dean A. Banks, D.D.'s page. Stay tuned for more! Thank you for choosing us!
What is the Spirituality Guidance Channel? SGC is a video portal designed to introduce spiritually inclined individuals to be exposed to spiritual videos, radio, teachers, music, art, books, resources and links from a selected group of teachers and requests from viewers. Each featured coach/teacher will have their own page highlighting any videos, audios, websites or printed material they have produced. This portal will be regularly promoted on the Internet through social networking and targeted marketing channels. Please visit the website at the following address:
http://www.spiritualityguidance.com and email me at webproducer@hotmail.com with any suggestions, links or materials. Thank you for your most courteous participation in this project. I welcome your input. ~Dean A. Banks, D.D.
Welcome to our new Sunday Morning Service by Dr. Dean A. Banks, D.D.
Every week Dr. Dean will be engaging subjects that are pertinent to your growth and expansion into recognition of; respect to; and communication with your inner spirit.
Please feel free to comment or suggest topics for review. May the Divine always bless you and your families! ~Dean A. Banks, D.D.
When you make inaction concerning critical issues a result of your erroneous beliefs, you have shot yourself in your foot. Why? Because you have fooled yourself into believing instead of truly knowing. When you operate from belief it is your ego, a construct of certain reptilian processes in your brain, that ‘chooses’ to act or inact based on the reflections of reality it observes and perceives as being real.
All perceptions in your brain, in actuality, are ‘copies’ of reality and NOT reality itself. These perceptions are the result of observations being filtered through your belief system and then judged as being true and valid; for YOU and you alone! If observation is filtered through any erroneous beliefs it becomes a tainted perception and not a valid one. Remember, beliefs are nothing more than repeated thoughts that you accept as true and get programmed into your subconscious mind.
Truth can be established by one, yet validity requires shared truth. If what you believe does not align with the understanding and experiences of others then it is truth without validity. When 67% of the American electorate consciously chooses to not vote because they either believe that their vote doesn’t count or that both sides are the same, they are making excuses to defend ‘their’ truth and dismissing its validity with others. It is a selfish act of the ego; no more, no less.
Stop allowing erroneous beliefs to determine your individual state of affairs or that of others. Get off of your ever-widening ass and go the library to investigate the truth and test its validity. Stop going from one site to another looking for evidence to back up your skewed perceptions of reality in order to fulfill a selfish agenda. Your inaction is undermining your individual divinity; whether you realize it or not.
Lift yourself above the din of chatter and chaos and seek out the truth for yourself. Be accountable and responsible for that which edifies your spiritual desires and NOT that which satisfies your ego’s yearnings. Be that which you truly are more than that which you ‘believe’ you are! ~Dean A. Banks, D.D.
SPIRITUAL BOOKS
CONSULTATION
LIVING IN AWE
Knowledge of the Divine begins by living in awe of the omniverse. The majesty, wonder and precision of the perceived dualistic reality is on display for us to learn and co-create our Divine purposes in Divine order. Those who refuse the instruction of the celestial stage are foolish and despise the wisdom it relays.
The Spirit of God within guides us to a deeper understanding of the world around us. As the play of life unfolds on the celestial stage we learn from our interactions with others. The lessons we learn from life adorn us with the pearls of wisdom and bind us to the realization of our entire beings.
When others try to convince us of their reality we must hold fast to what the Divine has revealed to us within our hearts. Do not listen to those who say they are following ‘the way’ for it is their egos that are fooling them and leading them to the death of their awareness of the spirit within.
When the ego exalts itself it has to convince others that it has the way to becoming great. It strives for safety in numbers and leads others astray in order to glorify itself. Stay off of the ego’s path to destruction and open your heart to the Spirit of God within you. The more the ego succeeds and feels that it ‘gets away with’ the greedier it becomes until it consumes our lives completely.
Every day we can put our egos in their place by allowing Divine guidance to unfold our Divine purposes in Divine order. Observe the cosmic play and see how the Divine unfolds the majesty of life. Learn its lessons and listen to the still small voice of God. ~Dean A. Banks, D.D.
LIVING IN DIVINE
ABUNDANCE
Many of us do whatever we can to maintain and fulfill our lives each and every day. We work to support our families; we learn to better ourselves; and we participate in our communities to help others. But what does it really take to live in abundance? Is it a mystery that we will never solve or is the answer so simple and obvious that we continually overlook it and dismiss it as being too easy?
Could it be that our own conditioning of living in fear of what we don’t know has caused us to shut off the flow of our inner well-being? Or could it be that we are so smart that we are stupid to the simplicity of how energy flows through us and affords what ‘appears’ to be advantages to some and disadvantages to others?
There are four sequential steps to releasing and living in Divine abundance in our lives:
First, we must be thankful for who we are and what blessings we have already received. By recognizing that our inner spirit has already blessed us with life and the ability to maintain our life we have opened the inner door to our bountiful inner well-being. When our prayer to the Divine is one of ongoing thankfulness, we are acknowledging that the Divine ‘can’ and ‘will’ provide who we are with what we need to survive, strive and thrive. This requires a mind/heartset of the acceptance of abundance.
Second, we must be grateful for where and how our blessings have unfolded to bring us to where we are right now; an opening inward with the awareness of abundance. Meditation is the practice that allows ‘where’ we are to receive Divine guidance as to ‘how’ we should proceed. This requires a mind/heartset of the allowance of prosperity.
Third, we come to understand that contributing to others with our talents, skills and abilities (our blessings) must occur ‘when’ they need it the most. No matter what else we are doing we realize and know that we need to make others’ needs a priority when they are in dire need. Our Divine service to others focuses our blessings into sharing Divine love and NOT hoarding it just for ourselves. This requires a mind/heartset of the rejection of negative beliefs about wealth.
Finally, we must be bountiful with ‘why’ our blessings have benefitted others; to fulfill ourselves AND everyone! This requires a mind/heartset of the non-resistance to negative beliefs about your health and the active participation in the healing and maintenance of it.
Some may say, “But how do I move these imperceptible energies that have created this enormous omniverse? I am insignificant in this massive display of creation!” It turns out that we have an electro-chemical device within us called a brain that acts like a relay. Our brains use lower energy to affect and harness higher energy expressions.
An electrical relay is an electro-mechanical device that uses lower and safe voltages to flip a mechanical arm that connects higher voltages safely. Our brains are the lower voltage devices that ‘flip the switch’ of dynamic omniversal ‘higher’ energies. But how do they do this? By being thankful for who you are and what you have received; by being grateful for where and how your blessings have unfolded; by contributing to others with your blessings when they need it; and by being bountiful with why your blessings have benefitted everyone in your life. As below, so above; and as above, so below. As within, so without; and as without, so within.
By being thankful, grateful, contributing and bountiful with our blessings we set the Divine order from our inner well-being into motion to ‘affect’ natural order with the fulfillment of the innermost desires of our hearts. We need to move from accepting where we are to allowing where we need to be. We need to reject what does not contribute to our growth and expansion and not resist what appears to be holding us back. We need to allow Divine abundance to become our ongoing prosperity by supplying our needs of wealth (that provides for our loved ones) and maintain our individual health to fulfill the purpose of our existence.
Prayers of thankfulness, meditations of gratefulness, service of Divine contribution and fulfillment of Divine desires open the floodgates of Divine abundance. You now have the key to open the door. Will you use it, hide it away or dismiss the revelation that is now your blessing?
Please click the following link to purchase the eBook, “Your Daily Path to Fulfillment.” In this eBook you will learn exactly who you are, what you need to do, where you need to do it, how you can do it, when you should do it and why you should do it. Without the key to living a fulfilled life you will continue to live in mediocrity.
Why not become whom and what you were created to be by allowing that which has given you life to bless you more and more each and every day. Be ye therefore a relay of Divine love! ~Dean A. Banks, D.D.
RELIGION OR SPIRITUALITY?
WHAT'S THE DIFFERENCE?
Religion is a specific fundamental set of beliefs and practices generally agreed upon by a number of persons or sects [Wikipedia.com]. It comes from the Latin root ‘religio’ which means a binding together of people with common beliefs. But what if those beliefs have been changed from their original meanings? What if those beliefs are completely erroneous? Do you still follow that religion? Can you believe it?
Word of mouth and writing of dead sheepherders, fishermen and monks from over 2000 years ago are influencing life today! Mind boggling! Practicing religion is ‘believing’ other people’s experiences as being true and valid without being able to actively test whether or not the beliefs are valid! Spirituality is characterized by or suggesting predominance of the spirit; ethereal or delicately refined; of or pertaining to the spirit as the seat of the moral or religious nature [Wikipedia.com].
The Spirit of God IS the seat of our moral nature and fills us with well-being when we allow that Spirit to guide us. It is a ‘personal’ experience between YOU and GOD!!! What others say about it makes no difference whatsoever. You have center in your being that is Divine love. It IS your inner well-being.
People who are negative or evil follow their selfish ego more than allowing Divine love to guide them. Trying to be righteous and moral with your ego in control is like driving without lights on a darkened road. If there is no Moon shining, you might eventually run off the road and hit a tree. Opening a channel of Divine love between your heart and your head is like turning on the headlights. You will see what unfolds before you enough to stay on YOUR path!
Spirituality is being open-minded enough to allow that which you don’t understand to be presented to you in ways that you do understand. Listen to the still small voice of the Divine Infinite Spirit of God within you; it is your best friend, your guide and the provider of all the answers you seek. Live your OWN spiritual experience and NOT someone else’s interpretation by following ANY religion.
Yeshua was NOT a Christian. Buddha was NOT a Buddhist. Mohammad was NOT a Muslim. Hinduism had no founder at all! All of these great teachers and followers always pointed to the Spirit of God as the Source of all of life. Why live someone else’s beliefs when you can have a one-on-one knowing relationship with the Source of all life. Cut out the middleperson! Go to the SOURCE!!! ~Dean A. Banks, D.D.
What is responsibility? It is the state or fact of being responsible, answerable, or accountable for something within one's power, control, or management [dictionary.com]. It means that you have the capacity and ability to respond proactively based on rational thought and your inherent morality formed against moral turpitude.
But where does the act of being responsible come from? Is it a whimsical choice or does it require an underlying layer of an accepted value? Responsibility comes from the value of accountability. Being ‘accountable’ means that you are answerable for the choices and actions that you make OR don’t make! It means that you can explain or justify your thoughts, feelings, beliefs, words, actions and behaviors as being morally sound and/or rational. Accountability means that you understand and accept that your interactions in your environment have CONSEQUENCES!
If you are truly responsible for your interactions in your environment, then you know that you have a find a way to co-create that which edifies you AND others! If you are truly accountable within then you come to a knowing that you must give of yourself to others by sharing your talents, skills and abilities with them in order to positively affect their lives AND yours!
Responsibility comes from you acceptance of accountability to your inner well-being. Accountability comes from your inner knowing that we are all connected in Divine love and that we are here to share that which has created us! You have the divine authority to act on your inner values that shape your reality and the reality of others.
Don’t shirk being responsible and accountable for your expressions in your environment. If you do, you are playing games with yourself and denying the truth that there are consequences for your actions AND inactions.
Be ye therefore focused on that which edifies more than that which debilitates! ~Dean A. Banks, D.D.
WELCOME TO TSP DAILY!
We are so pleased with the success of The Spirituality Post Weekly Online Magazine, The Spirituality Post Daily and The Spirituality Guidance Sunday Morning Service that we have now combined them into a daily online magazine for those involved in Spirituality. Every weekday and weekend we will be featuring the writings and sayings of Dr. Dean A. Banks, D.D. Please come and visit us every day to receive inspiration, guidance and opinion on spiritual and political matters. We would like to thank you all for your support and dedication to the writings and sayings that we feature. May God bless all of you and your families now and evermore! ~Dean A. Banks, D.D.
What is success? Is it the accumulation of victories or things that you passionately desire? Or is it fulfilling your selfish yearnings to the point that you pat yourself on the back for your apparent ingenuity?
What is success? Is it the accumulation of victories or things that you passionately desire? Or is it fulfilling your selfish yearnings to the point that you pat yourself on the back for your apparent ingenuity?
Success is defined as “the favorable or prosperous termination of attempts or endeavors; the accomplishment of one’s goals; the attainment of wealth, position, honors, or the like” [dictionary.com].
Is success the end result or an ongoing process? It turns out that we have a moment to moment choice to either allow or resist our inner well-being. What exactly is our inner well-being?
It is living in concurrent states of peace, understanding, joy and Divine love. It is allowing that which has created you in perfection to flow through you unfettered by your selfish beliefs. It is letting go of that which does not serve your inner well-being and sharing your talents, skills and abilities with others. As a result, you live in health, wealth, prosperity and abundance; the culmination of your choice to allow your inner well-being to guide you completely.
Peace is a state where you don’t allow doubt, worry or fear to interfere with your flow of Divine love from your inner well-being. This leads to the ability for you to understand that the Divine actualizes just ‘how’ events, occurrences, situations, circumstances and the behavior of others will manifest for the mutual benefit of yourself and others.
When you begin to feel that ‘the heat is off’ on you to perform the ‘how’, you enter into the realm of joy. Success, in essence, is the joy you feel for being the right person, doing the right thing and living in Divine love. It is NOT the accumulation of egoic victories over others and ‘things’ that you believe make you ‘happy’.
When you live in joy everyday you are experiencing the bounty of Divine love. You are NOT resisting that which appears to be against you; you are allowing that which is your inner well-being to guide you into fulfilling your Divine purpose in Divine order.
Stop trying to ‘get’ that which is naturally already yours! When you look outside of yourself for that which can only be found within you are resisting your inner well-being. What you resist will persist and you will come to know that it is there and the results that it can and will provide will always be just out of arm’s reach.
It is when you stop resisting and start allowing your well-being to guide you all that you have dreamed of in living a fulfilled life will be made manifest. It simply requires you to ‘get out of your own way’ and allow that which you are to flourish. Be ye therefore truly successful! ~Dean A. Banks, D.D.
WHAT MAKES YOU HAPPY?
What makes you happy? Is it the feeling that everything is OK despite negative appearances? Is it the joy you feel by winning out over someone else? Or is it an inner joy that bathes you with peace? Some people define happiness in misery. The more people they can bring into their pity party, the happier they feel. They recite a ‘Diary of Agony’ and a ‘Litany of Grief’ in order to suck you into their vortex of ‘woe is me’ and don’t you feel sorry for me. They keep singing the song, “I’m a real pain in the ass, I’m negative, I’m needy.”
How do you deal with these kinds of people? You throw them off of their game. When I answer the phone and they say, “How are you?” I respond with, “I can’t complain; nobody will listen. They have enough problems of their own. But, come to think of it, now that I got you on the phone...” Inevitably, a dead silence occurs. At this point I laugh out loud because I have offset their obvious agenda of roping me into their pity party.
I have no time for those who rehash negatives and ask for advice that they have no intention of taking. Most of them have already made up their minds of what they are going to do; they just want validation from me that they should do what they are intending to do.
Happiness is a state where you perceive you are living in good fortune; your experience of pleasure creates inner peace; your contentment is awe inspiring; your joy is real because it comes from within. It is not basking in your perception of your misery and gaining allies to reinforce your warped sense of happiness.
Be forthright in your observations, perceptions and beliefs in life. Be wise enough to know that some of your most profound beliefs can be completely erroneous. Be committed to living in true happiness and not some sense of happiness predicated on personal challenges and negative perceptions.
Recite your ‘Diary of Comfort’ and your ‘Litany of Blessings’ instead of sharing your woes and disadvantages. If you don’t, you are recreating negativities because you are resisting their experiences and adding energy to their existences. Be ye therefore living in true happiness and not masked over misery! ~Dean A. Banks, D.D.
WHO'S WATCHING
YOUR THOUGHTS?
Who’s watching your thoughts? Your ego or your spirit? Is there a supreme being listening to your every thought, taking notes on how you express your emotions and rewarding or punishing you for your behaviors?
Our spirit communicates as our conscience and guides us into an understanding of our positive or negative thoughts, attitudes, beliefs and behaviors. Our ego protects us as our built in survival mechanism. When the spirit discerns our experiences it affords us a glimpse into the greater picture. When the ego judges another’s actions and behaviors and imposes those beliefs on someone else that person will naturally react in judgment, unless they allow their spirit to discern what the accuser is saying.
The spirit exists in Oneness with the Divine and our egos live in a dualistic world of polar opposites and shades of grey. When your ego believes it has done something wrong it tries to protect itself. Guilt arises and beliefs of punishment crop up to create what the ego feels is atonement for its ‘sins’. This is a dualistic illusion that can only be seen in the light of reality by communicating with the Spirit of God within you.
No one is ‘watching’ you except yourself. You inherently know whether your actions are forthright or aberrant. The Spirit of God knows your thoughts, attitudes, beliefs and behaviors and is patiently waiting for you to wake up from the dualistic illusion and become the being you were created to be. It is all up to you to make the correct choices.
The reality is that when you ignore the Spirit of God your ego will go about creating what it believes it needs to purge itself of guilt. It can’t be wrong or not feel good about itself so atonement must be found at all costs.
Communicate with the Spirit of God simply by loving who you are and who others are. The roadblocks of consciousness will break down and the truth will be revealed to you one day at a time. Peace on your journey. ~Dean A. Banks, D.D.
DO YOU FIT IN?
Sometimes it seems as if the chaos of the world is what is driving our every movement. We react to the eddys and currents and flow along with the trends in order to ‘fit in’. But how do you fit a square peg into a round hole? Do you simply chop off your corners in order to round off your edges enough to fit in? Or do you mold and shape your square form and shrink down to fit into the circle? There is another option, however. It comes from the realization that the round hole is only round because it appears to be round and you accept it as such.
The expressed reality always reveals the structure and form of the creative principles involved in its manifestation; however, since we are co-creators in this vast omniverse, we can ‘imagine’ the manifestation as fulfilling a different purpose than what most people accept to be as ‘the way it is’. This, in essence, is not ‘reacting’ to the round hole but ‘proacting’ from it. It is taking what ‘is’ and making it into what ‘could be’ in order to co-create another ‘reality’.
But do we really have the power to do this? Are we endowed with such creative energy that we can actually move mountains? Yes and no. In electrical application there is a device called a relay. Its function is to applying the switching of high voltage circuits by using low voltage triggers. In other words, our concentrated thoughts that ‘imagine’ other realities affect the larger and more powerful energies surrounding us when we consistently and effectively focus on their manifestation. This IS the process of co-creation. It is one of our Divine ‘gifts’; the expression of Divine love into the omniverse. This requires complete trust in the Divine to take the images in your mind (your de- (of the) sires (the Father)) which have been planted in the seat of Divine love (your heart) and ‘convert’ them into reality.
Just thinking about your desires is NOT enough to manifest them. You must passionately ‘feel’ them in order to flip the relay and move the energies of the cosmos into complete and utter fulfillment of your ‘desires’. The apparent chaos in the outer world can be ‘affected’ by your committed passion to the end result by your ‘feeling’ the joy of accomplishing what you desire. Feeling this joy allows you the experience of complete Divine trust. When you trust enough to not attempt to control ‘how’ things will manifest, you align your Divine purpose with Divine order.
Consistent and dedicated imagination DOES create reality. You must use your imagination and practice its implementation in order to co-create what you desire. It’s a simple as that and only as complicated as you make it. Stop stressing over ‘how’ things come about and have the faith in the Divine to move the dynamic energies of the cosmos to actualize your desires to fit the square peg into a new square hole; one that is meant for you to fit in and one that will completely fulfill your desires.
It all begins when you imagine something other than ‘the way it is’, or should we say, ‘the way it ‘appears’ to be’. Be diligent in your pursuit of your dreams and desires. They are the seeds of greatness that the Divine planted in your heart of hearts. Germinate them with imagination and water them with passion. They are yours and yours alone to commit to the growth and expansion of YOUR reality.
It doesn’t matter how much chaos exists outside of you as long as you maintain your inner peace and conviction to manifest your Divine purpose in Divine order. Use the gifts you have been blessed with to ‘fit in’ the way you were created to ‘fit in’ and not the way you ‘believe’ the world wants you to ‘fit in’. You are unique and there has never been a mold that cannot be broken by the imagination and passion of the human spirit. ~Dean A. Banks, D.D.
Is there a daily path to fulfillment? Are there certain behaviors, when practiced daily, which can ensure your individual fulfillment? Are these behaviors, when properly mastered, able to remove you from feelings of being a victim of uncontrollable circumstances to embracing feelings of being victorious? It turns out that we need to have a certain mindset, coupled with a certain heartset, in order to create the canvas of co-creativity where we can paint the unfolding of our Divine purpose in Divine order. The first four; acceptance, allowance, rejection and resistance, focus on your mindset. The second four; abundance, prosperity, wealth and health, focus on your heartset. The last four; prayer, meditation, service and fulfillment, focus on aligning your ego with the Spirit of God in order to ‘ride the crest of the wave’ in Divine order.
Establishing a Proactive Mental Mindset:
Acceptance: Acceptance is the act of taking or receiving something offered; favorable reception; approval; favor; the act of assenting or believing; the fact or state of being accepted or acceptable [dictionary.com]. It is approving of something that has happened and believing that it is true and valid; even though its validity has yet to be proven. When we accept things ‘as they are’ we have two choices of emotional reaction; we are either critical and thankless or relieved and thankful. A reaction of thanklessness means that we have accepted what has happened and that our ego has ‘tolerated’ its existence. Tolerance is the ability to endure or ‘resist’ that which has happened and give the appearance that one is understanding; when in fact, they are only understanding to be accepted by others and not necessarily because they agree with how things unfolded. Tolerance gives the ‘appearance’ that one is ‘understanding’ without knowing whether they truly are or not. The move of our acceptance from our heartset to our mindset remains ‘reactive’. However, if we react with an attitude of being thankful, we set the process of being ‘proactive’ into motion. We understand that what has happened to us does NOT require us to ‘attach’ any negative emotions to it (e.g. being tolerant). In this way, the movement of our reaction from our heartset to our mindset IS proactive and genuine. Acceptance opens the inner door between our mind and heart; however, we must still ‘choose’ to either react with emotions guided by beliefs or proact with thoughts guided by Divine knowing.
Daily Acceptance Affirmation: I accept all events, occurrences, situations, circumstances and the behaviors of myself and others as being true. I repeatedly test their validity by observing how they occurred and why they came about. I choose to proact by listening to the ‘knowing’ of Divine guidance instead of reacting by attaching erroneous beliefs to my experiences. I accept things as they are and NOT how I want them to be. I enjoy where I am now in my life and value my experiences. I use my power to choose by creating an effortless flow of energy that keeps me comfortable and happy.
Allowance: Allowance is the complete opposite of resistance. It is a state of mind and heart where you accept everything just as it is and you don’t attach any emotional baggage to it. It then peacefully and surreptitiously passes through you without affecting your knowing of Divine truth. Allowing is NOT tolerating! It is accepting ‘what is’, aligning yourself with it and living in a state of joy regardless of what is occurring around you. It gives you an awareness to look for the good in everything no matter how bad it appears to be. It brings you into a state of appreciation of all that unfolds in Divine order. It is making a state of ‘feeling good’ a priority in your life and being consistent in maintaining that state. It is removing the mindset of resisting and fighting and replacing it with understanding and compromise for us all to live in peace and mutual respect. The Law of Allowance is very simple and straightforward; what you allow, you fulfill! Allowance - To understand that well-being is within you and that all you have to do is replace ‘need’ with ‘receive’ in order to have it unfold from within you.
Rejection: Rejection and acceptance are ‘mental constructs’ that occur ‘without’ significant emotional drive where resistance and allowance are ‘emotional constructs’ that occur ‘with’ significant emotional expression. Resistance is the emotional drive of ‘fight/flight’ and allowance is the emotional drive of ‘letting go’.
Resistance: Resistance is a state of mind and heart where you reject things based on what you ‘believe’ they are and actively fight their perceived influence on you. It is beneficial to reject things that are counterproductive to your being; it is NOT beneficial for you to add energy to them by fighting or resisting their apparent existence. Resistance truly is futile because it keeps us trapped in ‘reacting’ to facts instead of dealing with them ‘as they are’. We either observe the facts through direct experience or we believe what someone else has observed with direct experience. In other words, we trust what we sense or we trust what someone else senses.
Establishing a Proactive Emotional Heartset:
The Four Possibilities:
The Path to Abundance – I know that everything in the omniverse is at my disposal to fulfill my Divine purpose in Divine order.
The Path to Prosperity – I daily allow my thoughts to recognize that the power of love is from the Higher SELF within me and completely trust the guidance that it imparts.
The Path to Wealth – I daily allow my feelings to not react by observing my environment and discerning my evaluations based on the facts and not the opinions of others.
The Path to Health – I daily allow the sensing of my surroundings to derive a meaning and passion about fulfilling my Divine purpose in Divine order by making the time each and every day to commune with my Higher SELF.
The Four Probabilities:
The Fulfillment of Abundance – I know that when I move toward fulfilling my Divine purpose in Divine order my Higher SELF reveals more and more opportunities that were always there but were beyond my perceived limited perspective.
The Fulfillment of Prosperity – I direct my thoughts towards the fact that when I express and share Divine love it blesses me with the awareness and guidance to manifest experiences that benefit all.
The Fulfillment of Wealth – I direct my feelings to allow that when I live the truth that I experience from observing the facts and not relying on others’ opinions, I align myself with Divine order.
The Fulfillment of Health – I direct my observation from sensing my environment to allow me to discipline myself in communing daily with the Divine. As a result, the Divine unfolds more and more into my world creating joy, understanding and peace.
The Four Aspects of Living:
Physical - Every day my body seeks its own level of physical health. I support and encourage this by eating healthy foods, exercising to maintain balance and order and resting to provide the reduction of stress.
Emotional - Every day my feelings move toward emotional wealth. I discharge any and all erroneous beliefs that don’t serve my greater purpose of sharing love with all in Divine order.
Mental - Every day the thoughts in my mind move toward prosperity in ideas, implementation of ideas and clear and distinct pictures of the ideas that contribute to my growth and expansion into living my Divine purpose.
Spiritual - Every day the blessings of the Divine make me more aware of my spiritual abundance. Through the responsible choices of my free will, Divine grace and unconditional love I make steps to get out of my own way to actualize and manifest whom and what I was created to be.
The Four Opportunities:
Prayer - Each and every day I ask the Divine through prayer to provide a clear path for all to health, wealth, prosperity and abundance. Through extending my thoughts, feelings, actions and deeds toward others I daily remain in a state of ongoing blessings.
Meditation - Each and every day I meditate to listen to the still small voice of the Divine guiding and directing me toward the fulfillment of my Divine purpose in Divine order. Through minimizing my thoughts, emotions, actions and deeds I daily enter a state where I can remove the veil of illusion that fosters separation from the Divine.
Service - Each and every day I serve others by giving forth my talents, skills and abilities toward the growth and expansion of all. Through focusing my thoughts, emotions, actions and deeds toward the betterment of everyone I share Divine love into the world and awaken all to the Oneness of the Divine.
Fulfillment - Each and every day I educate myself more and more how to fulfill my Divine purpose in a perfect manner that stimulates and inspires me toward complete fulfillment. Through inputting the thoughts, feelings, actions and deeds of others into my plan of manifestation I benefit from the lessons learned as a result of their interactions.
The Four Essentials:
I Am Health - Every day I ingest the necessary chemical nutrients to sustain the healthy balance of my cells’ ingestion, digestion and excretion. I optimize my physical body by exercising, meditating and getting the proper amount of sleep every day. I remind myself everyday that my health comes from my source, the Divine, and not from anyone or anything else. I express complete and perfect physical health every day by praying for guidance and well-being.
I Am Wealth - Every day I allow only the positive feelings of love to sustain my emotional center’s realization, acceptance and allowance of ongoing wealth. I optimize my inner heart by relaxing, listening to the Divine within and discharging erroneous beliefs each and every day. I remind myself everyday that my wealth comes from my source, the Divine, and not from anyone or anything else. I express complete and perfect emotional wealth every day by meditating and listening for guidance from the Divine.
I Am Prosperity – Every day I use my mind to observe, evaluate and discern events, circumstances, situations, occurrences and the behaviors of people for the experiences only, without judging those who have committed any aberrant behaviors. I optimize my mental experiences by understanding that my thoughts are electro-chemically based copies of reality colored by my emotional beliefs and in reality I am prosperous in everything I do. I remind myself everyday that my prosperity comes from my source, the Divine, and not from anyone or anything else. I express complete and perfect mental prosperity every day by serving others in helping them to balance their physical, emotional, mental and spiritual aspects of their being.
I Am Abundance – Every day I feel the presence of the Spirit of God within to sustain my allowance of Divine order to manifest my Divine purpose perfectly. I optimize my spiritual awareness and experience by making the time each and every day to meditate on the presence of the Divine within. I remind myself everyday that my recognition, acceptance and allowance of abundance come from my source, the Divine, and not from anyone or anything else. I express complete and perfect spiritual abundance every day by allowing the fulfillment of my Divine purpose in Divine order.
I am health. I am wealth. I am prosperity. I am abundance. I am peace. I am joy. I am complete understanding. I am the fulfillment of my Divine purpose in Divine order. I am THAT, I am. ~Dean A. Banks, D.D.
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